What if the person you love asks for some space? Will you say yes? or disagree?
What if that person still insists to have some space? What will you do? Will you just let it happen?
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Scary, I've been through that and I also don't like the feeling. BUT it is anyone's right to get their own SPACE [not the space on your keyboard lol]
This usually happens when one person was already thinking about something outside your relationship.
Like he or she is having second thoughts, while the other person is unaware of what is happening
with his or her partner.
Like he or she is having second thoughts, while the other person is unaware of what is happening
with his or her partner.
Scenarios like, your partner is too busy and you feel like there is no romance at all, you get used to your daily life without your partner and then suddenly, you realize, you are enjoying your life without your partner. (which is for me is usual) I mean we don't have to be always with our partner (but that was just my opinion).
Asking for space was crucial, you will not know what will happen next if you take your partner for granted.
Asking for space was crucial, you will not know what will happen next if you take your partner for granted.
Based on my experience, my ex-boyfriend asked for space and then he gives a time frame for that (he was my first boyfriend) (like wt*) So, I just respect his decision and give him some space. Then suddenly it was almost a month and he is still not texting me or calling me, or when I message him through email or Facebook. He is not responding.
I am so worried and then one of his friends told me he has already another girl and he said to the girl that he was single (like another wt*). AND THIS IS HAPPENING ALL THE TIME, like BOY IF YOU DO NOT LIKE ME AT ALL JUST SAY IT TO ME.
I'm not totally against to you guys asking for space, I know that some matter takes time. BUT IF IT'S JUST SPACE "PLEASE GET BACK TO YOUR PARTNER AND TALK TO HIM OR HER ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS AND DECISION". Your partner is not a thing to disregard or taken for granted, that person also has feelings, he or she will listen to YOU. That person is also a "HUMAN".
So, is there anything else to avoid this event in a relationship? I REALLY DON'T F*CKING KNOW. But somehow we can give a solution to this (somehow)
What you have to remember when you are in a relationship that NO ONE IS PERFECT AND THERE IS NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. If there is a PROBLEM talk about it. DO NOT go to sleep or disregard the problem because it will leave a mark in your relationship (this happens to me a lot of times my dear).
FORGIVE and TRUST each other, one of the important things to remember when you are in a serious relationship. To trust your partner and learn to forgive his or her mistakes.
If he or she is busy, schedule a time or a date "IF THIS IS REALLY NECESSARY". But sometimes surprise dates are more romantic.
Do not OVERTHINK (I usually do this). As you have already given the trust to your partner, let him or her know that you are confident with his or her decision and to her friends, most especially to her workmates.
SO, IF THIS IS STILL NOT WORKING OUT. Because your partner suddenly avoided talking to you even if he or she drops words like he will decide, she just needs to be alone, he just needs to have some time to think about all of those things that are bothering him (-_- ).
I'm not totally against to you guys asking for space, I know that some matter takes time. BUT IF IT'S JUST SPACE "PLEASE GET BACK TO YOUR PARTNER AND TALK TO HIM OR HER ABOUT YOUR THOUGHTS AND DECISION". Your partner is not a thing to disregard or taken for granted, that person also has feelings, he or she will listen to YOU. That person is also a "HUMAN".
So, is there anything else to avoid this event in a relationship? I REALLY DON'T F*CKING KNOW. But somehow we can give a solution to this (somehow)
What you have to remember when you are in a relationship that NO ONE IS PERFECT AND THERE IS NO PERFECT RELATIONSHIP. If there is a PROBLEM talk about it. DO NOT go to sleep or disregard the problem because it will leave a mark in your relationship (this happens to me a lot of times my dear).
FORGIVE and TRUST each other, one of the important things to remember when you are in a serious relationship. To trust your partner and learn to forgive his or her mistakes.
If he or she is busy, schedule a time or a date "IF THIS IS REALLY NECESSARY". But sometimes surprise dates are more romantic.
Do not OVERTHINK (I usually do this). As you have already given the trust to your partner, let him or her know that you are confident with his or her decision and to her friends, most especially to her workmates.
SO, IF THIS IS STILL NOT WORKING OUT. Because your partner suddenly avoided talking to you even if he or she drops words like he will decide, she just needs to be alone, he just needs to have some time to think about all of those things that are bothering him (-_- ).
Ask your partner, STRAIGHT TO THE POINT, if it is already over a week or a month, you must still ask him, because you are also being bothered. And if that person already has another one, and you didn't know all about it. Say this to that person, "I'M A HUMAN, NOT TAKEN FOR GRANTED, I HAVE A HEART, EAR TO LISTEN, FEELINGS YOU ALREADY KNOW AND MIND THAT IS ALSO BOTHERED BY YOUR DECISION".
Honey, you do not deserve to be treated like that. No individual even your cat or dog [lol] deserves this!
Ask why you need space, if you can talk about it (as I have mentioned earlier) TALK ABOUT IT. There is nothing in this world that cannot be done with a heart to heart talk. But do not force your partner too much, it will only create negativity. If he or she still insist to ask for some space without any explanations, understand it. BUT THAT PERSON ALSO MUST UNDERSTAND YOU ARE WAITING.
Ask why you need space, if you can talk about it (as I have mentioned earlier) TALK ABOUT IT. There is nothing in this world that cannot be done with a heart to heart talk. But do not force your partner too much, it will only create negativity. If he or she still insist to ask for some space without any explanations, understand it. BUT THAT PERSON ALSO MUST UNDERSTAND YOU ARE WAITING.
Thank you for reading!
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