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<div>Parents have the delicate task of maintaining a loving, touching family relationship while also teaching their child or children to recognize and reject "bad touches". </div><div><br /></div>1. Know your children's friends. <div>-"Know" [not like the stalky type of behavior that might push you off by your kids]. My mother always let us invite our friends into our home, whenever there's a group project or just for playtime. This is her way to know how we interact and how we behave. Parents should know who were the people their child interacts with, you may not know there could be someone else trying to befriend your child but they have another agenda for them. </div><div><br /></div><div>2. Never leave your child unattended. </div><div>-[this is very important!] I've seen parents with their phones, literally not minding their own child and freaked out when they've gone missing. You have to get your head straight and focus on your child whenever you are with them. </div><div><br /></div><div>3. Be involved in your child's activities.</div><div>-Most parents were having a hard time getting involved in their child's activities because of the experience and gap between the generations. I've seen children who do not want to ask anything about their studies or technology because they seem not confident with the capabilities of their parents [which is really sad]. Parents should not just be a guardian but also a best friend of their child even at a young age, interaction is always important.</div><div><br /></div><div>4. Listen when your child tells you he or she does not want to be with someone.</div><div><br /></div><div>5. Be sensitive to changes in your child's behavior or attitudes. </div><div>-Yes! Please do remember this one. Other parents don't have time to check on their kids, and their main reason was they're tired, busy, wanted to relax. They ignored the emotional needs of their children. I was bullied in grade school up until college, but it took a toll on me when I was in 4th-year high school, I suffer from depression and had a therapy when I was in college [without my mother knowing]. I prefer to keep it to myself because whenever I wanted to tell my problems to her, she doesn't seem interested and always focuses on her job and to her things. </div><div><br /></div><div>6. Pay attention when someone shows greater than normal interest in your child. </div><div><br /></div><div>7. Have your child fingerprinted and know where to locate dental records. </div><div>-This seems to be a lot of effort, but it will help you just in case something happened. </div><div><br /></div><div>8. Take a photograph of your child each year (4 times each year if under age 2)</div><div><br /></div><div>9. Be prepared to describe your children accurately - including clothing, visible identifying marks, or special characteristics. </div><div><br /></div><div>10. Develop a set procedure should you and your child become separated while away from home.</div><div><br /></div><div>11. Do not buy items that visibly display your child's name. </div><div>-It might attract molesters or kidnappers. Some children are too gullible to believe someone. </div><div><br /></div><div>12. Be sure your child's school or day-care center will not release your child to anyone other than you or someone you officially designate.</div><div><br /></div><div>13. Instruct the school to contact you immediately if your child is absent or if someone other than you arrives to pick up him or her without advance notice from you. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwKAXFCQJnJB6KevD6M0anRh2fHJol0aeiRtpENpxAJ3LnCMfU6KB21m3kL7VHoIZwl5waZxs2ZvogicBh4uJ0cHE4aiaVBdswSFZSnQsI1SVF0yNfLHgkcRYXv3mcTrGmLWELqd1638Il/s1880/pexels-photo-296301.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1245" data-original-width="1880" height="331" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiwKAXFCQJnJB6KevD6M0anRh2fHJol0aeiRtpENpxAJ3LnCMfU6KB21m3kL7VHoIZwl5waZxs2ZvogicBh4uJ0cHE4aiaVBdswSFZSnQsI1SVF0yNfLHgkcRYXv3mcTrGmLWELqd1638Il/w500-h331/pexels-photo-296301.jpeg" width="500" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Captured by: <a href="https://web.archive.org/@goumbik" target="_blank">Lukas</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><br /></div>

Safety Tips for Parents

Judes Biajedor July 02, 2020 Family Society

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<div style="text-align: center;">Waking up from 8 hours of sleep;</div><div style="text-align: center;">I thought it was refreshing,</div><div style="text-align: center;">I thought my energy was filled up.</div><div style="text-align: center;">I thought my mind is already at ease...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">But I'm afraid it wasn't...</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">My mind is still filled with worries I could not escape.</div><div style="text-align: center;">My heart always aches for no reason.</div><div style="text-align: center;">My body feels tired as if I run a mile. </div><div style="text-align: center;">My eyes just wanted to shut itself again </div><div style="text-align: center;">and </div><div style="text-align: center;">Not go back from what was happening.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">These feelings elope me </div><div style="text-align: center;">and </div><div style="text-align: center;">knows I can't find a way to get out of this.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYedJmLozAELc_oCkvIMWjdEgpXSV-Obi9GKfpndX9rKu_wrPHeFnYmqRdzAGXdPq9GESoRNYxlk3tWKkqvy8R6h2CkWX5oavy3VQSv4mYf0KH4SG6R-qwcwI01VwIhooemMKApljMaPHY/s1880/pexels-photo-4083097.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1208" data-original-width="1880" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYedJmLozAELc_oCkvIMWjdEgpXSV-Obi9GKfpndX9rKu_wrPHeFnYmqRdzAGXdPq9GESoRNYxlk3tWKkqvy8R6h2CkWX5oavy3VQSv4mYf0KH4SG6R-qwcwI01VwIhooemMKApljMaPHY/s320/pexels-photo-4083097.jpeg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Captured by: <a href="https://www.pexels.com/photo/man-sitting-on-brown-wooden-boat-4083097/" target="_blank">Xilent Emn</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>

C O N F U S E

Judes Biajedor June 29, 2020 Literature

Waking up from 8 hours of sleep; I thought it was refreshing, I thought my energy was filled up. I thought my mind is already at ease... But...

<div style="text-align: center;">It's hard to tell, and I don't even know if this is a good subject to talk about. This is something that I could or not share, but I have these thoughts ever since I've been in the BPO [business process outsourcing] industry. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;">So...What's the reality? Let me tell you my story. </div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMOcRN_DFkzLemlRDBN0LiYE5UUPXJc3dA0J05StcopgmYUtWhLzQzKAbdIKJ_YMannoQVM_Imm7CriYEu7cCobBJpD6LR4L5PHamxYszxZ-4LhyphenhyphenrAyX0N9NeeuROZX5BrwxzrF51sc8wz/s1880/iphone-desk-laptop-notebook.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1253" data-original-width="1880" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMOcRN_DFkzLemlRDBN0LiYE5UUPXJc3dA0J05StcopgmYUtWhLzQzKAbdIKJ_YMannoQVM_Imm7CriYEu7cCobBJpD6LR4L5PHamxYszxZ-4LhyphenhyphenrAyX0N9NeeuROZX5BrwxzrF51sc8wz/w320-h213/iphone-desk-laptop-notebook.jpg" width="320" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">credits: <a href="https://www.pexels.com/@startup-stock-photos" target="_blank">@startup</a><br /></td></tr></tbody></table><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I started working in a BPO company when I was in 4th-year college, to help myself in projects and thesis. Being a teenager who does not have much, even my mother can't support all my projects at that time. I have no choice but to look for a suitable job. I tried going on a freelance, getting projects, then there are multiple offers from my friends. Being a waitress at that time does not pay much, so I have to think of something else. </div><div><br /></div><div>I'm scared to be honest, maybe because of the rumors I've heard about their experiences in the call center industry. About having an active sex life, multiple relationships, unfaithful partners, struggles for promotion, too much peer pressure and so many more. On the second thought, the salary was okay. I do not mind all of these as long as I'm being paid.</div><div><br /></div><div>I was hired but I'm having mixed feelings, scared but excited. Scared because I'm going to be on another reality and I have to make sure that I'm able to pass my subjects even though I'm working full time in my work as a customer service representative. </div><div><br /></div><div>My first BPO company would not accept your application unless you prioritize the work and my university should be the one to adjust. There's no work-life balance, which they've been claiming from their online advertisements. Though I was accepted, I consulted my professors and told them about my concern, they're very understandable and let me go to their other class to catch-up. </div><div><br /></div><div>On the training, we were taught the basics of customer's greeting, using different tools, the do's and don'ts and so many more that overwhelmed me. </div><div><br /></div><div>As a communication student, I was able to use my listening skills and the way I respond to arguments. My experience with the training was just fine, the information [products and processes] are the ones difficult to analyze. </div><div><br /></div><div>They set your performance by the scores you get with the customers, which is hypothetically not 100 percent accurate. I'm also a customer and if I want to fake myself throughout the conservation I can do it even if you solve my concern, I can still give you a 0 for no reason, by a mistake or because the product itself pissed me off. And that could happen often!</div><div><br /></div><div>If you get a dissatisfaction score, they'll find mistakes every time [in every way]. But if you get a satisfactory score they won't mind it. [ahem]</div><div><br /></div><div>It's the same thing that happened on my Second BPO Company. Your scores determine your skills. Numbers are really important when it comes to this kind of business, and if you're a person who does not have much patience, then this job is not for you. </div><div><br /></div><div>Most people there, blunt about their past experiences or their position in the company. Showing the might of you-know-who-I-am-so-back-off kind of attitude. [not all but some]. I've seen leaders and dictators, I've seen fake people and the ones who have a pure heart and just wanted to work there for their family. </div><div><br /></div><div>There were these cases were team buildings and group lunch or dinner which is normal for any kind of company. If you're not attending one of those activities and you were invited, some will judge you for not being fun and friendly, which happened to me a couple of times because I have to study and I'm not really a person that would go out often. </div><div><br /></div><div>Also, working in this kind of industry gives me a hard time to look for another career, the whole story of me starting to work here is not my dream at all. I applied to multiple industries which I believe I'm fitted because of my skills, but because I have experience with BPO, these companies questioned me why am I applying for a different position or career that is too far from my experience, then they would accept other applications who do not have any BPO experience.</div><div><br /></div><div>I was judged numerous times. I know that most of the people working here do not have a healthy lifestyle. And my mother was worried that I could try drugs or even smoke, or drink liquors and beers [which I have not]. Maybe drinking beer but not often, occasionally. </div><div><br /></div><div>I was also told that the BPO industry is the home of "single-moms". It opened my eye to the reason behind why. After the shift, going to bars or clubs. Most of my friends did open up that they have sex with workmates, and that made me worried. Some of them have their own family, some of them just want to have one, but risking their health also their relationship was a big thing! </div><div><br /></div><div>The active sex life, which you can have a fuck buddy, but I do believe that this kind of thing also happens as long as you really want it to. [but I don't]</div><div><br /></div><div>I've been telling the not so good things and this is quite long! </div><div><br /></div><div>Well...I'm also glad that I've started working in the BPO industry, it opened my eyes to reality, how hard it is to be promoted, how difficult to get scores, you will not have any reviewer, you have to let your mind and heart to be strong for whatever the customer or supervisor will throw at you. </div><div><br /></div><div>This industry made me strong, a lot of issues arise while I'm working here, it was really difficult, but it made me wise to choose people, whom I'm going to befriend. </div><div><br /></div><div>My communication also improved, I began to be confident speaking in public or even through any types of medium. </div><div><br /></div><div>The salary is not questionable, you can really get as much as you want, depending on your performance. But career-wise, especially if you have other sets of skills, you'll think twice, if you're still uncontented with this job. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>

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Judes Biajedor June 25, 2020 Society

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